Learning to Live with Others...in love!
Do you sometimes wonder why don’t those people see the world the same as I do? If you have ever lived or worked cross-culturally, you will probably have lots of funny stories about not quite understanding what was happening in various conversations. I do and often I just didn’t get what was happening and just smiled! Globalization is everywhere and living and understanding one another is a challenge.
For the last few months, I have been staffing the School of Foundations of Inter-cultural Studies , a University of the Nations course designed to train international students to be able to work effectively in multi-ethnic / cross-cultural teams. One of the members of my Reconciliation Walk team, YanYan has a passion for this course and so during this season, she led her first FIS here at the Oval. YanYan is from Hong Kong and brilliant and very funny. With her leading the school, I served as a member of the school staff. The school was small but also because everyone has been working together in other schools this year; we were able to talk about some of the thorny issues that confront us living in international communities and to search for the biblical values that guide us living together as followers of Christ.
What is so beautiful and so challenging is by living and talking together, one realizes that my own “ethnocentrism” needs to give way to listening to others and seeking to understand the way they do things. …not that one way is better, but often it is just different. When Jesus prayed that we would be one, he knew that this world of diversity and living in harmony was going to need “godly love” binding us together. No wonder the world has conflict because truly we don’t all see the world the same. Challenging but good!
If you want to read an excellent book on this subject, I recommend Dr. Duane Elmer’s book, Cross-Cultural Servanthood. Dr. Elmer starts with the premise that every marriage is a cross-cultural adventure so the book is very helpful in teaching good communication skills especially for moving from one culture to another to work. We are living in a very pluralistic world and learning how to engage with others is vital if we are going to be a part of God’s redeeming work. Enjoy the journey!
Do you sometimes wonder why don’t those people see the world the same as I do? If you have ever lived or worked cross-culturally, you will probably have lots of funny stories about not quite understanding what was happening in various conversations. I do and often I just didn’t get what was happening and just smiled! Globalization is everywhere and living and understanding one another is a challenge.
For the last few months, I have been staffing the School of Foundations of Inter-cultural Studies , a University of the Nations course designed to train international students to be able to work effectively in multi-ethnic / cross-cultural teams. One of the members of my Reconciliation Walk team, YanYan has a passion for this course and so during this season, she led her first FIS here at the Oval. YanYan is from Hong Kong and brilliant and very funny. With her leading the school, I served as a member of the school staff. The school was small but also because everyone has been working together in other schools this year; we were able to talk about some of the thorny issues that confront us living in international communities and to search for the biblical values that guide us living together as followers of Christ.
What is so beautiful and so challenging is by living and talking together, one realizes that my own “ethnocentrism” needs to give way to listening to others and seeking to understand the way they do things. …not that one way is better, but often it is just different. When Jesus prayed that we would be one, he knew that this world of diversity and living in harmony was going to need “godly love” binding us together. No wonder the world has conflict because truly we don’t all see the world the same. Challenging but good!
If you want to read an excellent book on this subject, I recommend Dr. Duane Elmer’s book, Cross-Cultural Servanthood. Dr. Elmer starts with the premise that every marriage is a cross-cultural adventure so the book is very helpful in teaching good communication skills especially for moving from one culture to another to work. We are living in a very pluralistic world and learning how to engage with others is vital if we are going to be a part of God’s redeeming work. Enjoy the journey!
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